When you are confronted with this question – whether at home, at work, or in any civic arena remember that you are here for a reason and a purpose – to express life, love, creativity, and joy. Your life is yours, not someone else’s. Your gifts are needed in the world. Your presence makes a difference. What is yours to do? Be the best you that you can be and help others do the same, in whatever manner is consistent with your gifts and talents. Expand your life and your viewpoint to include all the places where you are called on to see more and be more. Then give from the overflow to those who can’t see it for themselves.