You have always done the best you could because if you could have done better, you already would have. Mistakes get made, things get forgotten, feelings get hurt. This is true yet it’s certain that you do not do this on purpose. Releasing should’a, would’a, could’a opens a space for you to be compassionate with yourself. Yes, learn, Yes grow. Yes, next time you will remember, do better, or be more thoughtful. Today you’ve done your best. Let it be good enough because you are, in fact, good enough.