You are part of a loving, powerful Universal Presence and so is everyone else. No matter their behavior, most likely everyone in your life is actually doing their best. So give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they really are on your side. First look to see what is triggered, what old pattern in you is showing up, before you assume they are trying to be malicious or hurtful. Try seeing it from their point of view, and asking yourself if there is another way you could see it? Remember, we really are all on the same side, the side of Love and Life!
Clearly this does not include abusers. Seeing them with love but not permitting them in your space is completely appropriate.