You live in an infinite Universe. Since Life is Infinite, there can never be only one option or one possibility. There are always two or even 3 or 4 or 5 options and infinite variations. You may not like an option or its consequences but at least you begin to see that you have choices. By exploring ALL the possibilities, new ones emerge that maybe you haven’t seen before. Or you may decide that what you’ve got is the best possibility for you, and now you can see that you are choosing it. Seeing possibilities keeps you from feeling like a victim while opening doors and windows that you may not have dreamed were there. So, go, explore every possibility and let yourself be surprised by how your life expands.