Are you making that choice or are you simply letting things grow out of habit? You are completely free to choose to plant whatever you want to grow in the garden of your life.
Your intention is what plants the seed. Your attention is what makes it grow.
Are you planting weeds that will choke out your garden through on-going negativity, judgment, criticism complaint, unforgiveness, or fear? Are you planting seeds that will bloom and bear fruit through deliberate and consciousness attention to the good in your life, the joy you do experience, the abundance that is yours, the presence of Spirit and Love that is real?
Contemplation: What are you paying attention to? What are you habitually thinking? What intentions do you want to actively plant and attend to so that it grows?
Affirmation: I set my intention and pay attention to its growth.